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Unwrapping the Passion in your Relationship

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Thursday, December 18, 2008

Unwrapping the Passion in your Relationship

One of the most enjoyable and memorable parts of any Christmas is unwrapping the presents. Women can recreate that same feeling for their husbands by wrapping themselves in the luxurious folds of fine lingerie. Ladies, what your husband really wants for Christmas is you, but some fancy wrapping can certainly help set his Yule log aglow.

Like gift-wrapping, lingerie is an invitation to your partner’s imagination. It’s often said that the imagination is the most erogenous part of the human body, and lingerie, especially lingerie that your partner hasn’t seen before, can send his imagination racing. Where the imagination goes, the rest of the body soon follows.

Not only can lingerie enhance your partner’s experience, but it can help get your engine racing as well. Lingerie, and your husband’s reaction to it, can help you feel more beautiful and attractive. A boost in confidence can often boost the libido as well. Many women find that they feel more in control of the situation when they wear lingerie. It’s a signal that you are ready for playtime with your husband and most of the time, he’ll be powerless to resist. It allows you to make the decision of whether to engage in romantic activities while maintaining the illusion that your husband is making the choice. In reality, he is no more in control than the bull who sees the matador’s red cape waving at him, but he doesn’t need to know that.

With the busy work schedules that many two income families face today, it can be hard to find a time when both partners are in the mood. As a result, many find their sex lives are not as active as they’d like. By slipping into some sexy lingerie, you can help set things right, and put both of you back into the mood. Many relationship experts advise scheduling time in your busy week for romance, but that can lead to performance pressures for both partners and turn what should be fun into a chore. Just coming to bed with lingerie can serve the same purpose while maintaining the spontaneity of the sexual encounter. The unexpected surprise can help restore some of the physical and emotional excitement that you both felt when your relationship first started to get serious.

Lingerie is not a magic cure-all for a troubled relationship, but it can help to signal that you still care enough to take the extra step to please your husband. Chances are that he’ll respond to your overtures with some signals of his own.